The questions in this poem are directly from and adapted from questions Alixa Garcia posed in a workshop called "A Practice in Becoming...

*referring to sex between two or more people. Solo sex is awesome for anyone who finds it awesome, but that’s not what this blog is...

“Healing” that harms (rather than healing towards liberation) is a discussion topic that often comes up in intentional spaces I share...

Author Notes: This piece is directed at white folks, from a white person. It is never my place, or the place of any white human, to speak...

*This references Resmaa Menakem’s call to white folks for us to build a culture, not a strategy, and put the work in as a community, as...

*Variations provided for a similar practice in the shower or outside of the water completely* I offer this as a practice I have used to...